Then I thought why should Sam always gets a free pass in the end while Dean gets the blame....The way I see it, these notions are not only unfair to Dean, they are also not good for Sam because they "baby" him to the point of keeping him from taking responsibility for his own actions.
Completely agree! Of course Dean has made mistakes and he's not perfect in all of this, but for me Dean's mistakes were less selfish then Sam's and to use Dean's mistakes as excuses for Sam's actions is ridiculous! Sam is an adult and like you said he needs to start taking responsibility for his own actions and decisions, just like Dean is responsible for his as well. If they have to blame anyone then blame the demons and Angels not each other!
I don't deny I maybe too emotional to be impartial over this. But these are my truest feelings invoked by what I saw. I have no intention of bashing Sam. I'm only ever so disappointed in him because I had hoped he would grow up a bit. Instead I see him as pretty much his old self.
Yep! I always try my best to see things from both sides, probably more so because I'm a Dean girl, but you can't deny how you feel and the evidence that's right there on screen. Hopefully Sam won't continue to disappoint us, cause he was doing so well and now that they're back together again it feels like we're back to square one!
I had wished so fervently these words were addressed to Dean coming out of Sam's mouth! This is the exact apology I want to hear Sam make to Dean. I wonder if we'll ever get to hear Sam say something like that.
I wish for this too! I'm patiently waiting for this apology, but whether we'll get it or not I don't know!
Sam was so ready to leave Dean once again because he didn't think their partnership was going to work (to his liking).
Exactly! Once again Sam isn't have much faith in Dean and giving up before he's even tried! I so badly want to see Dean have it out with Sam about this, because it feels like he's making all the effort here and I can understand why - he wants to change the future he saw, but not sorting this out could potentially have the same affect as leaving Sam behind.
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Completely agree! Of course Dean has made mistakes and he's not perfect in all of this, but for me Dean's mistakes were less selfish then Sam's and to use Dean's mistakes as excuses for Sam's actions is ridiculous! Sam is an adult and like you said he needs to start taking responsibility for his own actions and decisions, just like Dean is responsible for his as well. If they have to blame anyone then blame the demons and Angels not each other!
I don't deny I maybe too emotional to be impartial over this. But these are my truest feelings invoked by what I saw. I have no intention of bashing Sam. I'm only ever so disappointed in him because I had hoped he would grow up a bit. Instead I see him as pretty much his old self.
Yep! I always try my best to see things from both sides, probably more so because I'm a Dean girl, but you can't deny how you feel and the evidence that's right there on screen. Hopefully Sam won't continue to disappoint us, cause he was doing so well and now that they're back together again it feels like we're back to square one!
I had wished so fervently these words were addressed to Dean coming out of Sam's mouth! This is the exact apology I want to hear Sam make to Dean. I wonder if we'll ever get to hear Sam say something like that.
I wish for this too! I'm patiently waiting for this apology, but whether we'll get it or not I don't know!
Sam was so ready to leave Dean once again because he didn't think their partnership was going to work (to his liking).
Exactly! Once again Sam isn't have much faith in Dean and giving up before he's even tried! I so badly want to see Dean have it out with Sam about this, because it feels like he's making all the effort here and I can understand why - he wants to change the future he saw, but not sorting this out could potentially have the same affect as leaving Sam behind.